Notes from a sermon I listened to a while ago.
The Love we are supposed to have to our wife is not some overflowing emotion, but the Love Christ has for us. We are to sanctify her!
Turn to the Lord to receive motivation to love her, not to her.
We are to view her as a child of the king, who’s been entrusted to us, and our desire is that our love, that overflows for her, would be a sanctifying influence in her life for the love of Christ who loved us.
We do not only love her that way because she is a part of christ’s body, but she also is a part of OUR body.
The sexual union between a man and his wife is a living, breathing, all-inspiring expression of the ecstasy of the union the church awaits. We do not think highly enough about sex. We don’t respect, honor it enough.
so, don’t we dare make less of it!
I am back from my holidays to France, so I will start posting sermon notes and stuff I didn’t publish yet. I will start reading 2 books, so more content on that will come within the next 2 weeks.
Future Men, and Her Hand In Marriage, by Douglas Wilson. They talk about Manhood, and courtship in the modern world.
Another awesome sermon, I listened to this one on Tuesday ( 2 days ago)
Again, my full notes are available.
I will quickly sum up a few of the most important points.
Requirements for (any) relationship:
- Spiritual Leadership in Scripture
- Ephesians 5 – Give Life for Her – Protect her and care for her – stay with her if she needs you
- Economic care
Interest in Girls: Signal to start preparing → assume responsibility – Manhood (NOT SIGNAL FOR STARTING)
If clothing is a frame for your face, it is from God.
If clothing is a frame for your body, it is sensual, and God hates it.
If you spend enough time alone with a girl you are attracted to, you will fall. Flee from youthful lusts! They are more dangerous than the devil!
please listen to the sermon and read my full notes if you are interested in this topic.
Yesterday, I listened to a very good sermon on sexual purity by Rick Holland.
My complete notes are available here:
I will sum up the 6 main points: Proverbs 5
- Learn from the Bible! → 1 Kings 3-4 Solomon’s wisdom came from God, So the Proverbs are good.
Keep words ready on your lips to fight temptation.
The DAD talks to his son about sex. Rick: about 10 years old.
Do NOT forget the pleasure part.
Reaction of the sons – blessing from God: they came back and asked questions! 🙂
- Uncover the deception of sexual sin.
Not only women seduce men, men also seduce women!
In the bible, flirting only happens in adultery or in the context of marriage!
In these times, a 1 edged sword was a tool, but a 2 edged sword was purely a weapon → the temptress is a lethal weapon!
The course of this woman’s life leads to death.
She is persuasive and dangerous.
- Learn the value of a safe distance.
Josef principle: RUN as far as possible. As soon as you start thinking about it.
Romans 13: Put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision to the flesh with regard to its lust. ⇒ It is a contradiction for someone to say they want to fight sexual temptation, and to do everything possible to expose themselves to pornography.
- Unmask the Consequences of sin.
Verse 9: Losing dignity
Verses 10-11: Losing resources
Verses 12-13: Remorse and regret
Verse 14: Public disgrace
Your Spouse will lose trust!
You will lose your peace (of mind).
Others will gain an opportunity to make fun of Christ!
- Unlock the satisfaction of marital fidelity!
Cisterns where a privilege of the rich.
⇒ Satisfaction only comes from your spouse.
Sex is ONE PART of expressing love.
Song of Solomon 7: Be entranced not only by her body, but BY HER LOVE.
If you are satisfied at home, sexually, you are not tempted as much outside.
- Unleash the power of god knowing everything.
Hebrews 4:13 EVERYTHING is revealed before God!
Are you more afraid of other people or of God?
As everyone who reads this blog probably knows, I just returned from English Camp. I will probably edit or follow-up this post, as I have absolutely no Idea where to start writing.
These are the verses we learned by heart:
2 Peter 2:9
The messages of these verses where not new to me, but it’s really nice to know them by heart and to know exact formulations.
I was in a cabin with David & Alex Trieb, and David Leiter. My counselors where Mike and Will.
I really don’t know what I liked most – I certainly enjoyed every single aspect of the past week. Obviously, it is nice to be Camper of the Day and part of the Cabin of the Week 😉 I had lots of great, deep conversations with many of the counselors, mainly Mike, Will and Hope. But even the daily routine of our cabin was, – besides extremely funny, which is clear when you see who was in it – very deep. We enjoyed loads of deep conversations, fruitful bible studies, and great Q&A’s. David, Alex and me also went out for a run every morning, sometimes accompanied by other campers or counselors.